THE SEARCH OF A YOUNG WOMAN

lately I been friends with ladies who are having so much stress with their husbands who happen to have other woman, and then I asked myself if this things really co-exist with marriage? are this things comes to a relationship??

Why is it that for some woman it is so easy to have relationship with a married man? is it more exciting? or is it the danger of being caught excites them? I wonder.. if being an other woman is easy in filipino word "KABIT". I guess not cause I've seen my granny and mom whom at some point in their life got hurted because of this so called "KABIT". For me its not a relationship at all, not even love, maybe lust I guess! Still I pity those who are on the position of being an other woman, I pity them because they have to claim something that does not even belong to her.

I'll leave one piece of advise to those who are "KABIT"
AND HERE IT GOES:
no matter how happy you are in a "relationship" but if your ruining someones life you better back off cause there is no way you can be fully happy if you insist on something that is not meant to be yours. Find somebody who can give you the gift of a title of being a wife not just merely being a lover. Lust is not love at all, it is a chemistry between to people who has urge in sex and that is not love at all.